Only Human

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I’ve always tried to live my life in a way that would be considered "living above reproach." I learned at a young age what this meant and it became my way of doing things. I never wanted people to question how I was living my life; I wanted what they were seeing to truly be who I was. As I have grown up I have been placed in some pretty incredible and unique situations that I have realized have made people wonder, who I am. I would even get caught up in worrying so much about what other people were thinking or how my actions may be perceived, that I was beginning to miss the joy in just living life.

Recently, my parents, stopped me and told me, “Tenley, you are 26 years old, you have lived a very honest life, and you have experienced some unique things, and have experienced some really hard life trials… don’t worry so much of what others are thinking of you; enjoy your life.” I needed to hear this, I had started living in such a way that I was getting caught up in how my life looked to others, and always being above "their' reproach. This is important, but I am only human, and I shouldn’t be so worried what others are thinking of me or how I might disappoint someone. Like I said, I’m only human, I’m bound to disappoint people along the way, there’s no way I can please everyone, and I shouldn’t act like it’s possible.

Over the last couple of years, I’ve really been learning how to live, and I want to live in a way that is honorable, but also spontaneous and free! This doesn’t mean I shouldn’t be responsible for my actions, but I shouldn’t worry so much what others may think. This itself is a very free way to live! I believe this is how I’m supposed to live my life. I’m not saying that I’ve been making horrible decisions, but I was holding myself back from opportunities or life experiences as I was too wrapped up in being concerned that I was going to disappoint someone.

Now, on the other hand, it is extremely important to me that I still do, "the right thing" - not according to other people and their personal standards - but according to the way I have chosen to live my life. For me, it’s all about who I'm living it for, and that's not for me, or for anyone else but God. I don't want to do anything that would be detrimental to building my relationship with Him. However, I don't always get it right. Thank goodness for grace.

On that note, I hope that people will keep in mind that things aren't always as they appear. My wish is that people will know me for me, and not someone edited on a television show. I have been so blessed with people believing in me, supporting me, and knowing where my heart is.

Tenley

“It’s by grace and love I’m saved. It’s by grace and love you have forgiven me. And by the love and grace I’m amazed, and it’s by grace and love I am free…” - Kutless

Speak Love, Act Love, Live Love.
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  • Nicole

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    Wow..that was very insperational..I just wanted to let you know you are an insperation to my friend and I. We watch the bacholar pad because you are soooo funny haha. My mom and I were hoping for you on the bachelor but I am kind of glad you didn’t end up with Jake because you deserve better;). I also wanted to say thank you for writing this it really made me think about how much I care about what other people think and how I shouldn’t as much as I do. Thank you for being you !

    -Nicole:)

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  • CS

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    T – this is the most random thing I have probably ever done. I am not even into TV. It’s odd and may come across insincere, but I am sure about it. You should meet Craig. The guy that Ali ditched right before the last episode on the next Bachelor series after yours…I am not sure if he’s a Christian, but WHAT a great guy. I don’t know you or he, but it was easy to tell what quality people you each are. If you have anyway to meet him or know him (and I’m not sure if he shares our spiritual grounding in Christ), but I think ya’ll should get married! (yeah – random unsolicited advice there.) Well, at least meet. He is much more the caliber of man you deserve.

    Great post today, you have solid parents. 🙂 You can take or leave this message, like I said, it’s one of the strangest things I’ve ever done. To send a note to a total stranger. Anyway, you’re a wonderful girl and truly devoted to Him which is all that matters.

    Yours,
    CS

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  • Kathy

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    Tenley keep the faith the truth that you know through your relationship with Christ will guide you and give you peace. Those that are also seeking truth will see His love shining through you. Others may not but that is where God works to change lives. Too bad there is so much judgment out there without understanding. God knows you heart and that is all that truly matters.

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  • Colby Pate

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    Tenley! I am so pleased to read this. I don’t really even watch the Bachelor or any of those shows really, but the one time I did watch it you really stuck out to me. I looked you up on facebook the other day and some of the things that people were saying about you broke my heart. I can tell from the little bit that I watched you that you are an amazing girl, and that you would never hurt anyone on purpose. I can tell that you try to love everyone, and the fact that you love God really shows. I just wanted to tell you to keep your head up and just look at the people that say terrible things about you as a test… it’s all about how you respond. ya know? I’m 20 years old and attend the University of Alabama right now. (haha I saw that Corrie girl from your season at a concert the other day) haha random. Anyways I help lead worship at a church hear, and also help with a ministry called “The basement” in Birmingham and help with a student ministry called “unashamed” on the UofA campus. I just wanted to let you know a little about me…. I would love to hear from you Tenley or at least know you got this… I’m sure you get this kind of stuff every like 10 minutes from all kinda “weirdos” but I promise I’m not like that! hahaha 🙂

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  • Ang

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    Hi Tenley,

    I really liked your message on here and wanted to let you know. Thank You for sharing your thoughts. I just recently saw you on The Bachelor Pad (I didn’t follow the Bachelor) but thought you were very sweet and charming, and yourself. It’s hard to be so happy and bubbly all the time because, at least for me, I have felt there have been so many people who have put me down because they are negative and miserable, and don’t like to see people be so happy. It has really taken the best of me in my life.

    I agree we should not let other people always dictate how we should be in our lives. So many people around me have always put me down for things I wanted to do with my life and I never feel good enough for anyone. Or some of the negative people at work have always tried to bring me down to their level by acting jealous or caddy with me. It can be so draining and sad when you get treated like that. Reading your message today has started to turn that around for me though, so I wanted to let you know. Thank You!! I’m starting to see I need to quit letting those people take the best of me, and get back to just trying to do my best for ME!

    I wish you well Tenley, and you defiantly have a new fan with me, thanks to your positivity and strength with being who you are!

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  • Courtney

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    Tenley, I admire the stand you are taking. I admire your character and your zest for life. I know it has to be hard standing firm in such an influencial world. Keep believing and God is going to continue to bless you AND DO GREAT THINGS THROUGH YOU. You have the perfect platform to witness and minister to people. Know that there are lots of people on your side…not to mention the almighty GOD 🙂 AND know that lots of people do pray for you!!!

    p.s. YES! Thank goodness for Grace. We would all be lost without it!!

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  • Kimberly Carlisle

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    What you wrote was so beautiful and inspiring. Thank you for sharing those thoughts.

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  • L

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    I’ve spent so many years not feeling like I am being myself…I too worry about what others think. I am always myself with my husband and children so for that I am grateful…but I am still holding back from totally being myself around others. It is kind of becoming internally heartbreaking. My husband says “Who cares what others think?!” I hope some day to get passed this. Stay true to yourself Tenley you deserve to be happy,

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  • mll441

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    I heard something on Christian radio the other day that may or may not be of interest to you…”I am not perfect, just trying really hard to be better.” 🙂 I really enjoyed reading your blog post and thought that quote was along the same lines. God bless you and yours!

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  • derek grieb

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    i just want to say you are sooooo adorable and i was rootin for u on the bachelor and i think u should of been the the new bachelorette anyway u are soo sweet and iam a huge fan!! lol
    Derek grieb 25
    Bend, Oregon

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  • Alicia

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    Tenley,

    I just want to let you know that even though you don’t know me at all, I’ve been really impressed with your honesty and your integrity as I’ve seen you on tv (and even more from what I just read). I feel like I am very much like you (at least I hope I am) and I appreciate the fact that you really seem to be a positive role model for young women our age. I know you have been through a lot, but thank you for staying so genuine.

    – Alicia 🙂

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  • bob

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    YOU are a great girl and an inspiration

    God bless you

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  • Francis X. Bernard

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    Great reflections, Tenley. I am a philospher and theologian by education, and I am very impressed on your wonderful view of life. May you continue to be blessed and share yourself with others.

    Francis X. Benard, Grandfather of Tenley Kavals, born to my youngest of three daughters on Thursday, August 12th, 2010.

    How many others have contacted you about naming their babies after you? A bet a lot.

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  • Anna White

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    Tenley!
    I just love you and your positive energy! You are such a bright light and I hope the best for you always! You are amazing!! Keep doing what you are doing and shining!
    Love,
    Anna

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  • Keegan Hull

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    Beautiful. Live life to the fullest. I try to take every experience in, you be someones little princess one day. I hope we talk.

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  • Colleen

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    Tenley, you seem like such a sweet sincere girl. Reality TV is not always “reality” and unfortunately not everyone understands that. Many blessings to you and keep your chin up! 🙂

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  • Samantha Behr

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    You are an amazing person! Your values make you a person of substance and all could learn from your positive attitude about life. Continue to be yourself, you truly are America’s sweetheart!

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  • Carrol Neuhart

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    You are one of the most inspiring people to be featured in the Bachelor series and now in the Bachelor Pad. You are honest, sincere and a woman of dynamic faith. You give a witness to the non-believers who are viewing and hold up a standard as a witness to those who are believers. You are doing well and have inspired me in your actions and I’m a generation ahead of you! Be proud of yourself and keep with the faith and integrity. In the U.S., integrity is a rare commodity and you show how it is done.
    By the way, I’m an Oregonian too.

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  • Amanda

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    You are so right, Tenley. I needed to read this now more than ever. I am going through a frustrating period, where I wish I could get advice from you! because you are awesome and you say the right thing, but since I can’t talk to you.. this is the closest. I whole-heartedly agree with everything you said! You’re amazing!!

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  • Cayla

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    Thank you so much for this! I stumbled upon it and I couldn’t agree more with what you have said. I struggle with trying to please God, please people and live a life that shows the joy that He has put in my heart and its a struggle to do that because I’m a people pleaser. But something I read the other day was that when we are trying to please people rather than trying to please God, we show what truly matters to us. Anyways, I don’t know if any of that made sense but I just wanted to say thank you for your encouraging reminder! I look up to you and want you to know that your life is a testimony! Thank you Tenley 🙂

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  • Kim Baird

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    Hi Tenley!

    I’m not sure if you actually view all of these comments but I just wanted to send you a quick note letting you know I’ve been a huge fan of your’s since the first episode of The Bachelor that you were on. I thought you were so down to earth, real, and honest. It’s tough to remain real and sincere with cameras on you all the time and you never know what they’re going to capture, but I’m impressed with the footage they’ve captured of you because no matter what’s been aired, you were always sincere and genuinely seem like a good person. I’m watching the Bachelor Pad every Monday night and am rooting for you to end up with Kiptyn (what a cutie) and to win the 250K! Sincerely, Kim Baird, CO

    I

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  • Danielle Morris

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    First of all love Kutless 🙂 I have recently began a forty day devotional called Infinite Grace by Women of Faith. Here was my bible verse from my chapter tonight…

    Oh, how sweet the light of day. And how wonderful to live in the sunshine! Even if you live a long time, don’t take a single day for granted. Take delight in each light-filled hour. Ecclesiastes 11:7-8 MSG

    Keep up the good work Tenley! Take delight in life and never retire. We receive favor from God given to us by His BOUNDLESS grace. Remember God does not condemn (Romans 8:1).
    -Danielle

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  • Ashley

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    Tenley, thank you so much for sharing this! I have always felt like this too…always having to be perfect or people will think “bad” of me. You are an inspiration, and have shown us that good girls can go far too!!

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  • Tim Brown

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    Tenley,

    I have read both your blogs and think that you are right on the money with what you’ve said so far. I’m the same age as you and was brought up the same way with similar virtues instilled on me from a young age. I know exactly what you mean when you talk about starting to feel like you have to fit yourself into some way of living in order to please everyone, even though that’s impossible! As a worship leader for my church in Philly, I can get caught up in trying to be “perfect” for everyone, but the truth is that I am not, and that is why I need God and His grace, because I fall so far short! Your words are inspiring. Keep on changing the world 🙂

    Tim

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  • Ashley

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    I have been watching the bachelor pad, and your my favorite. Not because your gorgeous but because you have emotion, and you genuinely care. I am continuously criticized for how much I care, and how I will drop everything for someone who needs something. So when I see you, (even though it is on tv), I stop worrying and I start to feel happy about who I am, and I start to be proud of who I am. Your inspiration to me and a true role model. I wish you the best and thank you for being you and being proud of it.

    Ashley

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  • Alexandra

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    Hi Tenley,
    I just wanted to write to say what an inspiration you have been to me. With 2 devastating heartbreaks you have held your head high, put it behind you, and still believe in love and that the right man is out there for you. This is so refreshing and i really admire your grace and humility that shines through in whatever you are doing. I am still in high school, and i really admire your personality and values, and i would consider you as a mentor.
    thank you,
    alexandra

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  • Sivje Parish

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    Hi Tenley. I just found your blog but am so happy to read this blog post. I totally understand being caught up worrying about what others think, while being true to your commitment to the Lord as well as to yourself. To sound all fan-like, you have been my favorite on the Bachelor, and now on Bachelor Pad. You are right about the weird editing. The producers, I am sure, have neat little character boxes they are trying to fill, so they edit with that in mind. It is all about sensationalism, and what sells. But I do see your heart shining through.
    On another subject, I enjoyed reading that you were a Disney princess. My oldest daughter just went for her first Disney audition and made it quite far in the process and was encouraged to return for another audition later in the year. That is her dream. She is now looking into some of their college programs.

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  • Shelby

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    So wonderful to read this. I am 28 and currently seperated with divorce papers ready to file. My biggest fear is what others will think and disappointing my friends and family. You are so right about not worrying what others think. This is our life, not theirs and we should enjoy it. 🙂 Thank you for this much needed post – something I needed to hear!

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  • Haylee

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    Tenley you are soo sweet, admiring, cute and fabulous. You are one of my heros! I believe you 100% that you are real, not fake. Your heart is so beautiful and as i can see, Kiptyn has got it. Tenley keep on living your life, you are amazing! Don’t worry i love you too Kiptyn!

    P.S. (Kiptyn you are lucky to have such a beautiful and amazing girl with you, and what amazing pictures Tenley!)

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  • Taelor Mcleod

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    Dear Tenley

    Even though i may be young age is only a number. I think who you are and what you strive for in life is amazing. in watching you through the bachelor and he bachelor pad i have been able to see you true colors and they are amazing. I completely agree with your parents because thats how i live life, by not focusing on what others think all the time but what makes me happy. That is something to strive for living for you and what makes you happy. Even at my young age i believe that this blog is perfect because we are only human it amazing to see that you are looking a life differently and just being you because your bubble and soothing personality will make anyone in a room stop and be amazed by you and you alone and i dont see how anyone can judge such an amazing person like you. It would be amazing if you got this message and replied back because i am dying to hear from you and learn about your life experiences. If this is a trait you desire i strive to be a chef because its what i love so if you ever need a private chef im your man. Its been great reading your blogs and learning about your personaity through television. You Are Truly Amazing and i hope to hear from you

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  • Catherine

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    Hi Tenley,

    What are your plans for the future ? What are your dreams ?

    Catherine

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  • Anna Puliusz

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    Dear Tenley,

    I was hoping you and Kyptin share the money. I loved you both, and I hope you are happy together. There will be other opportunities, so I wish both of you good health and good luck.
    Best regards:Anna

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  • Jordan

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    Hi Tenley,

    At least I hope this is going to you. I have watched you both on The Bachelor and The Bachelor Pad and I can honeslty say that from the little bit of your personality that has shown through you are someone I admire. You have such a spirit about you that is so positive and warm. I honestly cant believe I am writing you on your blog its kinda embarrasing but i wanted you to know that you have inspired me to be a better person. Thank you for that.

    Jordan

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  • Nicole Greely

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    Tenley,

    I loved you from the beginning!

    I can empathize with you on being misrepresented at times. It’s hard. I’ve been a big time victim of media. but, no one talks about what caused such a stir in my life years ago, it passes and people forget. I tried my best to walk through it with transparency and integrity, and it seems like you are doing that also. You are wise to know that what matters most is the opinion of those who truly know and love you. Good job, Tenley!

    I though I would extend an invitation to you to come visit our church, Solid Rock. It’s in Beaverton, right by Washington Square. The phone numbers on your website looked like they were from Tennessee, so I don’t know if you are living there or not (we lived there for a while). But, if you are still in Oregon, you should check it out. I think you would like it. The website is http://www.ajesuschurch.org. My husband is the worship director there, so the music is amazing! 🙂 It meets Saturday nights at 7 and 9pm in downtown Portland and Sundays in Beaverton at 8, 10, 12 and 6pm.

    By the way, I noticed your Kutless quote. The Kutless guys are friends of my husbands…… small world.

    Speak Love, Act Love, Live Love.
    God’s put in a unique position, so,
    Go change the world Tenley.

    Nicole Greely

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  • krista

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    thank you, tenley. that is really encouraging. i am trying to be okay with who i am too, and be okay with sharing who i am with other people without obsessing over how i am perceived. i agree—it’s all about grace, and sometimes we just need to have grace for ourselves, too. 🙂

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  • Brandy Edwards

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    Hi Tenley! Love your blog! Thanks for your poignant thoughts on your latest post!

    Ok, so I have a really weird request for you and am wondering if you can help or help point me in the right direction…

    I don’t know if you have ever read Lincee Ray’s website, ihategreenbeans.com. She loves all things Bachelor/Bachelorette and does hilarious recaps each week – all in good fun of course!

    Well, she absolutely ADORES Chris Harrison, Kiptyn’s abs and Dr. Pepper! Well she is doing a little calendar of “cute boys and Dr. Pepper” and us ihategreenbeans and Bachelor/Bachelorette fans are trying to get a photo for her of Chris Harrison holding a Dr. Pepper and one of Kiptyn (preferably with abs) holding a Dr. Pepper. We are trying to suprise Lincee and make this happen!

    If you can help, please email me at the address on this comment. Sorry if this is a weird request, I am a little embarassed asking – makes me feel like I’m 12 years old! But, hey, you never know unless you ask right!?! Thanks Tenley!! 🙂 Brandy

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  • Tiffany Woodward

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    Hey Tenley,
    I am a Christian divorce attorney in Pensacola, Florida. I have been a fan of yours since first seeing you on The Bachelor. I just wanted to let you know that I think you handled yourself well on The Bachelor Pad and the finale. I am SO excited for you and Kiptyn and hope you find your happily ever after with him. Keep living your life for God and inspiring others. 🙂
    Tiffany

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  • Kelly Batten

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    I wish there were more people in the world like you. People who live with integrity, honesty, a zest for life and an unashamed love of the Lord. You are such an inspiration. I’m 24, love Disney, fashion, the Lord and life. I really admire you! Thank you for being just who you are and for being a light in the darkness! You should come hang out in Florida 🙂

    LOVE that Kutless song 🙂

    Love, Kelly Batten

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  • Kelly

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    I wish there were more people in the world like you. People who live with integrity, honesty, a zest for life and an unashamed love of the Lord. You are such an inspiration. I’m 24, love Disney, fashion, the Lord and life. I really admire you! Thank you for being just who you are and for being a light in the darkness! You should come hang out in Florida 🙂

    LOVE that Kutless song 🙂

    Love, Kelly

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  • Blanche Golebiowski

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    I’d be inclined to comply with you on this. Which is not something I usually do! I really like reading a post that will make people think. Also, thanks for allowing me to speak my mind!

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  • kaitlin

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    makes me want to drink alchoholic beverages

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  • Maddy

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    Tenley…. thank you. Thank you so much for giving me some hope and inspiration during one of my lowest moments.

    I am a 24 year old Christian girl from New Zealand.

    My mum passed away suddenly and unexpectedly just over 2 months ago. She was my best friend and we couldn’t have been any closer. A month before she passed away we used to watch the Bachelor show together…. it was something that we used to have a lot of fun enjoying together – and brought us even closer.

    You inspire me SO much because we both have an incredibly similar heart and sensitive soul. You remind me so much of myself. I’ve had my heartbroken – like you – and I know the pain you have felt and how much strength is required to get through it.

    There are so many in this world who just live for themselves…. and then there are the rare jewels like you who truly shine amongst all else. PLEASE stay the way you are – so many people think you are amazing. You have the kindest soul… and you deserve nothing but the best. I am sure that your soul mate is coming for you, and he will be an amazing man because he needs to be – to suit you.

    I totally sympathise with you as I know what it feels like to have your life totally together – to have the friends and the family and the support and to have a passion – but to not currently have your “mate” in your life because you are hoping and praying for the best. And you only have heartbreak to look back on but remember God promised us to give us the desires of our heart. He has an incredible plan for your life – for mine and for everyone else. He is using you to complete his work here on earth and you are a light that just doesn’t stop shining.

    God will bring the right man into your life in his perfect timing. Don’t try to change who you are – accept and love yourself because you are stunning in every way.

    I feel your frustation because I have been in such similar situations as you. I’ve really fallen for a man, they have had my heart and I’ve tried to be the best I can be around them – just giving them love and expecting and hoping for the best…and then being so shocked and hurt when they have left me for someone else – someone who didn’t have the qualities I had… and you just feel ripped off. Like life is so unfair sometimes. I think God requires for us to be so patient….

    I am finding it so hard right now… as I’ve just had my heart broken again, I’m recovering from a surgery and missing my mum. I feel like I’ve been whacked around and things keep getting harder and feel so alone. But I trust God is there and know that times will get better. It is people like you who give me inspiration because you make me realise that it is beautiful to show God’s love – that it shouldn’t be hidden away and we shouldn’t conform to those around us. We need to be proud of being unique and being used by God. You inspire me during a dark time in my life….

    so for that… I am so thankful.

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    • Tenley Molzahn

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      I appreciate you sharing all of this Maddy, Thank you. You have inspired me as well. I hope your heart is full of hope in a beautiful future!

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  • Maddy

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    P.S
    If you ever visit New Zealand, I would LOVE to show you around 🙂

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  • Monex

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    ………..For most of us life is hard and many times seems to drag on day to day doing the same menial tasks day after day. For me nothing could be more true working hard making and spending the same money eating the same old food. I find myself thinking a lot about how my life could have been different what would I change if I could go back and fix all of the mistakes I have made..I know I cannot go back and change the mistakes I have made big or small but I wish I could. I wonder why I am not as successful as I could be or how strong a leader I could have been had I listened to him more clearly. I do not mind where I am now but I have this sense that things could be so much better. How can I make things better?.God has been continually reminding me of the young David who was basically forgotten by his family out in the fields. But God knew he was still there! A lot of you reading this post may feel the same way I do but God has never forgotten you! He still sees you there praying worshiping and crying when the world has forgotten you! He will send for you when he needs you! You will be ready because you trusted him!. Sure there were primitive medicines and oils that provided some help but no real answer to help solve complicated diseases.. Sacrifices were a form of worship and showed there respect and honor for the power of there God..In the Church one of our forms of sacrifice is through worship i believe that we can actually access the healing annointing through our worship of him.

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  • Florian Molzahn

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    Hello Tenley,

    while i was surching the web for the names of our family, i felt over your name.
    I never heard of you before, but our name is rare…and on your side of the world…hard to find.
    We have the same Prussian name, but living in other countries.

    As i read your blog here, i was one step before crying. I think youre walking the right way in that life. Many things that your writing are similar to my life. I dont know if its our name our something else, but my heart always want to please every human in that world. Its so hard to be that kind of human. You are always kept in a world thats full of fear and inhibitions and theres no way to get out it…

    Everyday i tell my mind that i have to move…move forward and let the old cage behind me, but its not easy, but when i read your blog i know that there human like us, who broke that cage and live their dreams and not dream their lives.

    I want to thank for the little shine through the sky…it helps…iam sure…

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  • Jenn Hummel

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    Hi Tenley

    It might be strange that I am posting this 6 months after you wrote this but the day you posted this beautiful inspiration was the day I had my beautiful daughter. (August 11, 2010) I am going to copy this and paste it in her scrapbook so she can be inspired to live a life that is “honorable and free”. Beautifully put. We all need to stop worrying about others and worry that we are being the best people that we can be. Peace, love and happiness is what I strive for.
    Thank you for being a genuinely kind person and I wish you all the happiness that you so deserve.

    On a side note…I also have been recently diagnosed with Celiac and find you to be an inspiration for healthier living and thanks so much for the G-Free ideas.

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    • Tenley Molzahn

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      This was so encouraging to read, I’m so glad something I wrote is something you want to take with you and teach your daughter. Such an honor. Thank you for sharing this.

      Also, keep coming back for more gfree help, hopefully I’ll continue to get better at posting!! 🙂 Best wishes!

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  • Mila

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    Tenley you are such a sweetheart and i love that you have a relationship with God and you are not ashamed to hide it. Being in the spot light you are an inspiration to a lot of people. Wish you and Kypten the best of wishes and that you get your hapily ever after from each other.

    Because you guys are KypTen:):)
    Loved you on the bachelor and Bachelor pad. Truly think that you and Kyp deserved to win it!!!!!
    Keep posting on your blog 🙂

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  • LYNN TIMKO

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    I watched you on the bachelor. I am on the g-free diet. The one thing I can’t find is what can I drink. I’m not talking about alcohol. I’ve only drank tons of water. Please help me. One other question what can I eat for breakfast? Thank you so much I plan on checking in with pretty often.

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  • Sherry Gutsch

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    Hey Tenley!
    So i am so inspired by you! you do live your life with a lot of joy! please please keep updating your site with more and more blogs, recipies, and funn-i love the way you live your life and im so happy to have you making an impression on so many girls..keep being you ♥

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  • Michaela

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    Tenley, thank you for being honest about your faith in God! It’s a breath of fresh air, especially coming from people who have been/are in the entertainment spotlight. May God bring you peace and clarity in all your life adventures. 😉

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  • Vanessa Garcia

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    Tenley, thank you!!! I needed this. You are a truly inspiration!!

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  • Kelsey

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    Hi Tenley,
    I am so amazed at the woman of God you seem to be. I’m still only 18 years old, but by the time I’m your age I strive to be half the woman you are. Thank you for this post and the one called blessed you posted. I am just so thankful for you and the ways God is using you here on Earth 🙂 I love you and Kiptyn and your relationship is definitely something I look up to! You are such an inspiration, keep being you girl! God Bless 🙂
    xoxo,
    Kelsey

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